Venues come ready-made. When you choose a traditional venue, much of the infrastructure already exists. When you choose a backyard, you're creating it yourself. That's why backyard weddings aren't just beautiful... they're built. My role is to help you build thoughtfully, both the wedding and the venue, so you can be fully present for what matters most.

The Vows Under the Stars Planning Method is a four-phase framework created specifically for backyard brides. Instead of guessing your way through hundreds of decisions, you'll follow a clear path that helps you build the foundation first, plan with confidence, and stay present throughout the process. You can experience the method through private coaching or inside the Guiding Star Society community.

It depends on your wedding and where you are in the journey. Some brides need a single strategy session to work through a challenge or make an important decision. Others want dedicated help building a timeline that keeps their day flowing smoothly. Many choose the Guiding Star Society because they appreciate having ongoing guidance, a supportive community, and a place to ask questions as they build their wedding and venue together. The goal isn't to have more support than you need. It's to have enough support to plan with confidence and stay focused on what matters most.

That’s Okay! You don’t need to start over. My support is designed to meet you where you are, whether you’re just beginning or finalizing the details. Together, we'll identify what's working, strengthen any weak spots, and create a clear path forward so you can plan with confidence.

That’s the beauty of backyard weddings—they don’t have to be. Backyard weddings aren't about perfection. They're about creating something meaningful in a space that already matters. With thoughtful planning and a little creativity, even an ordinary backyard can become the perfect setting for an unforgettable day.

Not at all. Most of the brides I work with are planning their own weddings. I provide the guidance, planning tools, and support that help you make confident decisions and stay focused on what matters most. Think of me as your backyard wedding coach... and a bonus wedding mom without the drama.

Absolutely! All sessions are virtual, so no matter where you're located, I can guide you through planning both your wedding and the venue you're creating around it. From layout and logistics to timelines and guest experiences, you'll have an experienced guide in your corner every step of the way.

The Starlight Session focuses on problem-solving—lightening the load, clarifying decisions, and cutting through the chaos. A Stellar Sequence session focuses on flow—shaping your timeline, refining the rhythm of your day, and creating harmony between logistics and love.

The Guiding Star Society is one supportive community made up of two types of Circles. You can join a Weekly Circle or a Monthly Circle, depending on the level of support that feels right for you. During each 75 minute session, you'll receive coaching, ask questions, work through challenges, and connect with other brides who are building weddings in their own backyards. Because planning is easier when you don't have to figure it all out alone.

A Circle is a small, supportive group of brides who gather regularly for coaching, conversation, and connection. Whether you meet weekly or monthly, each 75-minute session creates space to learn, share, and grow together. It’s your place to ask questions, find clarity, celebrate progress, and plan your wedding with heart and confidence.

Weekly Circles offer a close-knit rhythm of steady coaching and connection, ideal for brides who love consistent support. Monthly Circles gather once a month for a 75-minute session that allows more space between calls while still keeping you inspired and on track. No matter which you choose, all Circles share the same community space—so you’re never planning alone.

Workshops are optional add ons where we roll up our sleeves and focus on one task together. Examples include building timelines, mapping layouts, or finalizing budgets. They are open to both weekly and monthly circle brides and give you the chance to make real progress alongside your peers.